Courageous

Back in January or February, I was invited to a local church movie night. The movie was "Courageous". This movie was emotional, powerful and encouraging. The opening of the movie puts you on your toes. Your are screaming, praying, and holding your breath at the same time. This movie is a testament that we need more good men and Fathers. We see too many of these young men in prison. Then, once this young man once he is released from his sentence. He is now older he is placed in society. This man is scared because prison walls is all he know. It is time for men to be better husbands and fathers. First, these men/boys having sex with these girl/women, and don't want to be a Father. Also, they didn't have the influence of a Father figure in the home. They don't realize that they are  responsible for that seed they both created.  She didn't laid down by herself to have sex, nine months later decide to put her life on hold. I want these boys/men to know that you aren't hurting these girls/women.You are hurting an innocent child. This child need love and parents. He or she wasn't asked to come into this world.The male need to be responsible for their own seed. The girl/woman get pregnant don't want to be but have to deal with the decision that was made. These women can't put down this child and pick him or her up when they feel like it. This is another life that  they both are responsible for. Yet, this young man don't get that concept. Now, the help from Social Services aren't there to help you to get ahead. It is more to keep you on the system. When she attempts to take the right step by going back to school or take vocational course. Which she could make more money. Her services are cut from Social Services. She has to figure out how to survive to take care of a child that you don't contribute. Please let me say this if you do pay child support. This DON'T MAKE YOU A FATHER. A father spends time with their child. He fills the need of the child without being asked. Why should she asked when its your child too. These men/boys feel that she is forcing him to be a Father when they don't want to be. One of solution to the problem is men show these boys/ men how to be men, Fathers and husband. Because I need one. The future women of the next generation deserve a good man.

In The Mood Of Ole School

 Hello Readers!! 


    I hope your day has been well. I was in the feel of some music. Here's some of my favorites. Let's begin with the O'Jays.


Stairway To Heaven

Earth Wind and Fire _ September, Would You Mind

Johnny Mathis ft. Denise Williams
I hope you enjoyed these videos. Please share some of your favorite songs/ videos. Maybe we can have a battle of music. I would love to see who will win! Readers, sorry I was hoping that the post would be ready and it isn't yet.  I will do the post as soon as I can. Please keep check in for the post. Thank you for your support!

Being Placed With A Challenges

     Most of the day I have been trying to decide what do I want to write about today. As I sit here in this chair nothing is comes to mind. I am not feeling my best lately.I have been going through an experience. It isn't knew to me but do you ever wonder why you are in a place or position. Why does it seem like when you enter that place or position. It seem like hell has just broken loose. The more you try to get away from the position. The more you realize that you are made to stay there in that place. While you are in that place, you face all emotional stress. Your body feels things that you thought that was once barred. You come back from that side looking for some help. Yes, you call your friends. They can relate but it isn't nothing like going through it. You know you have been placed in this place for a reason. Why do I have to be on guard? You are so on guard that you can't give what is needed from you. Just the simplest mistakes are taken to whip you with it. The mistakes aren't intentional. The reaction to the mistake makes you feel as if you are the dumbest person on earth. The sympathy that you once accepted don't rise no more. I can tell your higher power. He will solve the problem.  Yet, still I rise!! 

Where To Find The Answer To A Life Question

     As boys and girls we grow up saying I want to be a dancer, etc. Usually whatever we see on television. Yes, your parents has their occupation but that isn't who they are either. As you continue to grow up your parents say you are so good at this and that. That talent or skill wasn't embraced. So, life takes you on a journey with the question, what is my purpose?


    For others it might be different how they got there but the question still remain what is my purpose? The dream you had as boy or girl that you was so passionate about could been your dream. Life goes on you learn life lesson, it may change. If anything makes you feel good inside to make you a better person. Most of all make people around you better, I feel that is your answer. Now, the dream is put aside to give to family and children. You continue to fill that emptiness or the filling what am I missing and the shoulda, coulda, woulda. I want to encourage you its never too late. I hear that so much for people. I think about the Bible. If Sarah can have a baby at the age of 99, that what the Bible say. Then, anything possible! Ask your higher power for guidance to lead you. Do your research, take the small steps in doing what  it is necessary to get started. Your purpose will show through others. When others might feel that you are gone crazy. Internally, you will know that this your answer.


     If you aren't still sure, write down things that you like to do that make you feel good. Then write the dreams. It might help if you get out and do volunteer work in that area to see if you are good at this particular skill. The answer will come when you least expect it.


     

What It Like To Be Served cont.

"Lane, Lane! yelled Dad.

"Yes, what is it?" she asked.

"What was you doing? I called for you twice."

"Dad, I was in my room listening to music. I couldn't hear you because I had my headphones on."

"Lane, would you take off my shoes, please?" asked Dad.

"No, Mom said when this day come to tell you. No. If you think I'm being disrespectful. I will show you the letter."

"Go get it now!" he commanded.

Lane slowly walked to her room calmly and confident. She promised her Mom that no man will make her a servant. Her Mom told her to get an education, travel the world, all of it at your fingertips. The more Lane remembered what her Mom told her. A smile of joy and happiness began to show outward.

"What are you smiling about?" asked Dad.

"Nothing, Dad. Here is the letter."
Lane handed her father the letter knowing everything Mom said before she died was true about Dad. He read the letter with tears filling his eyes."
"Dad, are you crying? I haven't seen you emotional since Mom gave us the news about the cancer." said Lane.

"Lane your Mom sound so happy in this letter. It bring back memories when we went on our first date. I thought she was so beautiful. God gave me a gift. I didn't take care of her like I should. I can't get my angel back. I took advantage of her. She used to tell me that the kids are going to grow and have their lives. We need to have ours now, so when they start theirs we won't miss a step. Lane, your Mother treated me like a King. I didn't treat her like the Queen she should have. I blame myself daily." Dad replied.

"Dad, you know what you did wrong. It's is time to heal. Be there for us while we are here. I pray God give you someone who you will cherish like you should. Dad, who should be served?"

Poetry

Love Is Moving Out

Stepping into the window

Looking for answers that can't be given

Being desired sexually

I have confessed my love

The games continually to be played

Laughing at me when the reaction

Tickle your fancy in every way

I'm not looking to be played

I want to be loved

You told me what you won't do

This can't be anymore

Because hurt is making its home with me

My Love

In and out of this emotional path

Wanting to be loved without the game of back and forth

Heather said it best "I wish I wasn't in love with you. Because you never going to change"

You make me want to break the chains

Once I had given myself to you our spirit connected

It was our responsibility to make it work, but

Why didn't you protect it?

President Obama: Look At The Facts

If someone ask me what you think of when you hear President Obama name. I think of an intelligent man who didn’t have much. He worked hard to have the American dream. He did just that! He is a man that loves his family. I also say First Lady Michelle has a great man. Second, I think of how he has kept his cool. At a time when the odds are against him, the negative comments and media are smacking him down with his decisions that were made. If you have seen the video, his mother had ovarian cancer. Which he watch her die due to not having healthcare. After several Presidents has attempted to tackle this huge issue. President Obama succeeds. The healthcare bill was passed. This is a man who has a heart for people. He isn’t trying to do what is going to make him look good. He is for the people. He hasn’t always had the best. President Obama hasn’t forgotten where he has come from. I rather have that person sitting in the White House who knows what it is like to struggle, taking care of a family and living day by day. Than someone who haven’t wonder where their next meal is going to come from. How they are going to put clothes and shoes on their children. As I watch Romney, I heard him in one of the debates say he would have let our automotive industry go down. President Obama didn’t do that. He risked knowing that the workers would suffer at a time where the stock market was bottoming out. No jobs mean any money; President didn’t want a depression to take place. I know what it is like. I was unemployed for almost a year. I used all my saving to survive. Last summer I was about on my last leg when the door of opportunity opened for me. This occurred when the job market was starting to look up.  Well all remember 9-11. That day will be remembered for all the lives that were lost. President Obama commanded the Navy Seals to kill Bin Laden. The mission was successful. He gave our country closure after ten years. The ad you see gives the accomplishments. Our people look at the facts. DON’T BELIEVE WHAT YOU HEAR. That is what President Obama wants you to look at. Roll back the curtain; I remember where I was in 2008. May I ask the questions to you are you better now or worse?