Saturday, March 31, 2012
Courageous
Back in January or February, I was invited to a local church movie night. The movie was "Courageous". This movie was emotional, powerful and encouraging. The opening of the movie puts you on your toes. Your are screaming, praying, and holding your breath at the same time. This movie is a testament that we need more good men and Fathers. We see too many of these young men in prison. Then, once this young man once he is released from his sentence. He is now older he is placed in society. This man is scared because prison walls is all he know. It is time for men to be better husbands and fathers. First, these men/boys having sex with these girl/women, and don't want to be a Father. Also, they didn't have the influence of a Father figure in the home. They don't realize that they are responsible for that seed they both created. She didn't laid down by herself to have sex, nine months later decide to put her life on hold. I want these boys/men to know that you aren't hurting these girls/women.You are hurting an innocent child. This child need love and parents. He or she wasn't asked to come into this world.The male need to be responsible for their own seed. The girl/woman get pregnant don't want to be but have to deal with the decision that was made. These women can't put down this child and pick him or her up when they feel like it. This is another life that they both are responsible for. Yet, this young man don't get that concept. Now, the help from Social Services aren't there to help you to get ahead. It is more to keep you on the system. When she attempts to take the right step by going back to school or take vocational course. Which she could make more money. Her services are cut from Social Services. She has to figure out how to survive to take care of a child that you don't contribute. Please let me say this if you do pay child support. This DON'T MAKE YOU A FATHER. A father spends time with their child. He fills the need of the child without being asked. Why should she asked when its your child too. These men/boys feel that she is forcing him to be a Father when they don't want to be. One of solution to the problem is men show these boys/ men how to be men, Fathers and husband. Because I need one. The future women of the next generation deserve a good man.
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I find some of this to be true. I need you to understand that you are saying that women are alone in raising the men you have been finding in your life; because the fathers are not there. With that in mind, you are saying women can't raise a male child to be a man. How about this thought, when a woman has decided that a man can't be nothing to a child they have except child support. Her anger for the man, for whatever reason, makes her block him from being apart of his child's life. When it comes to you finding your own man, God says you reap what you sew. In other words, you get what you are putting out there. Oh, and by way if all you want is positive responses you what you write let a real person know. don't just wipe it away wimp!
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